Hi all
I have read this thread with interest and just wanted to contribute something which may interest T2W members.
Some time ago a colleague who is a very successful trader sent me an email which I have posted below. When I first read it I didn't quite 'get it'. When I did eventually understand it changed my way of thinking. Maybe it will help newbies and inspire them and maybe trading veterans will agree or let us know their thoughts..... Anyway, here it is :
'Successful trading isn’t about learning anyone’s system and just trading it.
Successful trading is actually about making a profit every single month and then
repeating what you did every following month. And that is how trading becomes
successful trading.
So it’s not about the win you had today or the loss you had yesterday, it’s actually
about the Lego Principle, or: building lots of small things to make something big and
meaningful at the end.
Perhaps you will be reading this with some impatience as all you want to do is get to
your trading charts and trade. But if you take the time to read this then you might just
succeed where the other 95% of traders fail.
Today I made a loss but do I care ? Not one little bit ! Just like if I had a bag full of
sweets and I lost a few through a hole in the packet. At the end of the day I would still
have some sweets left and I would be content with that fact.
Trading is just like that sweets analogy. And you may spend the rest of your life trying
to find a trading system which has the best Entry signal and the best Exit signal in the
world, but you still could lose ! Many people do !
So every day that you DO make a profit, this is what you HAVE to do: Accept that
profit even if it’s only very small, switch off your trading system and then DON’T trade
again until tomorrow. Can you do this ? I wonder if you can ?
Because when you CAN do this then you are keeping one extra sweet for your
packet instead of losing one. And if you keep repeating this then you will end up with
a reasonably full bag of sweets at the end of every month.
Quite simply, people who cannot do this lose at trading. It’s that simple !
But the world of trading forums and brokers fill your mind with: “you need this
indicator and you need that system”. Well take it from me as someone who knows:
“what you really need is to be able to stop trading every single day IF you have made
a profit” – Period !
No sneaking back to your charts two hours later to: “just have a quick look”, because
that is your mind trying to get you to open another trade – and if you give into that
then you will lose the profit you made earlier in the day; guaranteed !
So successful trading is about YOU and whether you can resist your own temptation
to just: “have another quick look” at the charts.
Many people start trading and they believe that it’s an exciting thing or even an Ego
thing to brag to their friends and family about.
But quite frankly, telling your friends and family: “I trade the financial markets” is
nothing like as good as telling them: “I make a profit trading the financial markets” !
And to become a successful trader you have to realise one MAJOR thing. And that
one thing couldn’t be better explained than this expression that I picked up many
years ago: “Trading Is Boring – Keep It That Way !”
The day when you know what that means is the day you will be trading profitably.
So if you really want to succeed at trading then copy that expression and put it close
to your PC:
Trading Is Boring – Keep It That Way !'
Ever since I read the above I changed my mindset. If you read the last bit I think it might equate 'keeping it boring' to controlling your emotions and emotions make trading hard work and stressful. If something is boring then it isn't emotional, it isn't stressful and therefore you won't have any fear. 'No fear' allows us to continue to trade whether or not we won our previous trade or not. Food for thought I think
Just my opion for what it is worth.
Be Happy
Cofton
I have read this thread with interest and just wanted to contribute something which may interest T2W members.
Some time ago a colleague who is a very successful trader sent me an email which I have posted below. When I first read it I didn't quite 'get it'. When I did eventually understand it changed my way of thinking. Maybe it will help newbies and inspire them and maybe trading veterans will agree or let us know their thoughts..... Anyway, here it is :
'Successful trading isn’t about learning anyone’s system and just trading it.
Successful trading is actually about making a profit every single month and then
repeating what you did every following month. And that is how trading becomes
successful trading.
So it’s not about the win you had today or the loss you had yesterday, it’s actually
about the Lego Principle, or: building lots of small things to make something big and
meaningful at the end.
Perhaps you will be reading this with some impatience as all you want to do is get to
your trading charts and trade. But if you take the time to read this then you might just
succeed where the other 95% of traders fail.
Today I made a loss but do I care ? Not one little bit ! Just like if I had a bag full of
sweets and I lost a few through a hole in the packet. At the end of the day I would still
have some sweets left and I would be content with that fact.
Trading is just like that sweets analogy. And you may spend the rest of your life trying
to find a trading system which has the best Entry signal and the best Exit signal in the
world, but you still could lose ! Many people do !
So every day that you DO make a profit, this is what you HAVE to do: Accept that
profit even if it’s only very small, switch off your trading system and then DON’T trade
again until tomorrow. Can you do this ? I wonder if you can ?
Because when you CAN do this then you are keeping one extra sweet for your
packet instead of losing one. And if you keep repeating this then you will end up with
a reasonably full bag of sweets at the end of every month.
Quite simply, people who cannot do this lose at trading. It’s that simple !
But the world of trading forums and brokers fill your mind with: “you need this
indicator and you need that system”. Well take it from me as someone who knows:
“what you really need is to be able to stop trading every single day IF you have made
a profit” – Period !
No sneaking back to your charts two hours later to: “just have a quick look”, because
that is your mind trying to get you to open another trade – and if you give into that
then you will lose the profit you made earlier in the day; guaranteed !
So successful trading is about YOU and whether you can resist your own temptation
to just: “have another quick look” at the charts.
Many people start trading and they believe that it’s an exciting thing or even an Ego
thing to brag to their friends and family about.
But quite frankly, telling your friends and family: “I trade the financial markets” is
nothing like as good as telling them: “I make a profit trading the financial markets” !
And to become a successful trader you have to realise one MAJOR thing. And that
one thing couldn’t be better explained than this expression that I picked up many
years ago: “Trading Is Boring – Keep It That Way !”
The day when you know what that means is the day you will be trading profitably.
So if you really want to succeed at trading then copy that expression and put it close
to your PC:
Trading Is Boring – Keep It That Way !'
Ever since I read the above I changed my mindset. If you read the last bit I think it might equate 'keeping it boring' to controlling your emotions and emotions make trading hard work and stressful. If something is boring then it isn't emotional, it isn't stressful and therefore you won't have any fear. 'No fear' allows us to continue to trade whether or not we won our previous trade or not. Food for thought I think
Just my opion for what it is worth.
Be Happy
Cofton