FX,
cheers, no hope, obviously... one of those things you attempt for the good of mankind in the belief that one of us will hack it one day and pass the secret on to the rest.
Soc. Actually I have to disagree on this, it's a bit more complex - there are a good number of little boxes you can classify people in, for lasting success the better you know each individual the better you are able to manipulate them to seeing things your way. 'Training' will only work with those willing to be trained, with respect if I attempted to 'train' my wife as blatantly as suggested I'd experience hopeless failure and a fair degree of discomfort to put it mildly.
The normal process involves me letting her know I need to be left in peace - this broke down on the occasion I mentioned, it is not a normal occurrence. Part of the problem that day was myself - I thought I could see the screen, I thought nothing was happening and that therefore I could afford to talk for a minute of two.... wrong on both counts, and a relatively cheap lesson overall. Divorce, on the other hand, is a very expensive lesson.
Now, time I wasn't here....
cheers, no hope, obviously... one of those things you attempt for the good of mankind in the belief that one of us will hack it one day and pass the secret on to the rest.
Soc. Actually I have to disagree on this, it's a bit more complex - there are a good number of little boxes you can classify people in, for lasting success the better you know each individual the better you are able to manipulate them to seeing things your way. 'Training' will only work with those willing to be trained, with respect if I attempted to 'train' my wife as blatantly as suggested I'd experience hopeless failure and a fair degree of discomfort to put it mildly.
The normal process involves me letting her know I need to be left in peace - this broke down on the occasion I mentioned, it is not a normal occurrence. Part of the problem that day was myself - I thought I could see the screen, I thought nothing was happening and that therefore I could afford to talk for a minute of two.... wrong on both counts, and a relatively cheap lesson overall. Divorce, on the other hand, is a very expensive lesson.
Now, time I wasn't here....