Why are black American males considered to be more fearful than Muslims? Do the Muslims need to be black also to make the comparison, what if the Muslims are White, it's very complex to understand when skin colour is brought into the equation.
In Britain we have tried very hard (to the point of now utter ridiculousness where conversation is shutdown because of it), to eradicate racism, we have succeeded in my opinion, through legislation and through education, but we are on the brink of reversing all the good work because of the introduction of over zealous hate crime (political correctness corrupting our institutions), which will lead to a backlash (already started against the MSM).
It's probably totally different in America, or maybe not, you sound like a man of experience, to go boldly where few men have gone before, but to the average modern Brit is sounds like white people have something to prove, which sounds racist, you may not be racist, but your anecdotes are so overt that it makes it sound racist.
Even your point that this thread is racist and hateful is, to the modern non-racist Brit, unacceptable, when it is a thread for a discussion about so-called islamophobia, not skin colour or racism.