i know this is a bit off-topic but let me tell u how i c it.
lets talk about hypothetical Mr X here who wants to be a trader FULL-TIME, well prepared for it technically but has frozen fingers and general doubts about trading (a.k.a. doubts about HIMSELF
). btw a clear sign of frozen fingers is when u hv a losing trade and so devastated that u dont trade for the rest of the day - just watching the mrkt as if it were eastenders
Of coz Mr X has his own obligations, bills, gorgeous kids or flashy mistress etc - we all have to spend money dont we? mentally that adds to Mr X's doubts of whether he's actually gonna be good in making money trading full-time.
Now - let me show how i c it
When i was a kid (and was losing all the fights to a particular group of other kids - which mentally for a kid is a much bigger problem than utility bills for an adult
) my grandmom who is from Napoli told me - look at yrself in the mirror, u'll never win unless U BELIEVE u r Napolitano (Napolitani DO BELIEVE they r the best Italians in Italy). She even added that it is irrelevant if I was born in Napoli myself or not - it is that I had to believe it
U c my point? Napolitani being the best Italians or Mr X becoming a star trader r DEBATABLE issues (well only the latter one
). But unless Mr X BELIEVES he's gonna make it big time, not just to pay off bills, but to get a yacht in the Med
he'll never make it.....
brutal - oh yeah. but if it wasnt, every1 wud be a trader.
Read the signature to my posts - "if u dont succeed now, u'll never do..."
good luck to all