Hook Shot said:
Atilla this is a very interesting comment... particularly when you talk about interacting with another human being. It's the nature of that interaction which is so crucial... there ought to be some element of "connection" to make the interaction more than superficial. Superfish is cool but in moderation :cheesy:
CB - your comment about mankind being miserable is also interesting.....very interesting and perhaps should be the topic of another thread ?
Sorry to get philosophical here but you guys really got me thinking .......... 😀
Yeah I really think so too. The idea comment really comes from Emile Durkheim's work on suicide. He was a French socioligist who wanted to explain suicide and did so. Fantastic mind. Basically, he didn't look at individual suicide cases but towards social statistics. Then produced an explanation which still stands true today. His stats showed that,
Less Suicide < --------------- > More Suicides
Married --------------- Single
Catholic --------------- Protestant
Uneducated --------------- Educated
Poor --------------- Rich
With children --------------- No children
Women --------------- Men
There were many more but I can't remember them. You'd think somebody who was better educated smart and rich with no children to worry about would be happier. Not so.
His theory went that the more a human was integrated into society less likely he was to commit suicide. The more individualistic person is more likely to be suicidal.
Did you know that more women attempt suicide then men, but more men die from suicide. It's not that women are incompetent at killing them selves it's just that they use it as a call for help. eg. Take the pills to coincide with the husband arriving home - that kind of thing.
Many other people have taken his ideas and developed them further.
I hear what you are saying about the nature of human interaction but that boils down to peoples perceptions and expectations coupled with the idiosyncracies of individuals to create million and one connections. Somehow, we are programmed to expect others to be like us and when they are not leads to friction and dissapointment and rejection and lots of other issues. I suppose this is when people become miserable. However, I don't think people become miserable, they are made miserable by other human beings.