Yamato
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excellent interview, from both sides
usually this German comedian-journalist jokes around incessantly, but with his idol Sacha Baron Cohen he had to tone it down
Here's what he did with Nicolas Cage:
Not too funny. I can't believe he still gets a chance to interview all these superstars.
On the other hand, there are plenty of famous comedians who are not funny, and famous actors who can't act... and famous singers who can't sing...
These actors are taking it pretty well. Others would take offense at someone interviewing them dressed up as a clown. Although there's a dilemma... If you take him seriously, you respect him, but you get offended. If you don't take him seriously, you don't get offended, but you're considering him an idiot, and then you're disrespecting him. So maybe it would be more respectful to him to get offended, instead of taking him for an idiot.
In this sense, Tim Burton's reaction, when he tells him to go see a doctor, is maybe the most unpleasant but also the most respectful one:
It's like saying: I refuse to allow you to keep making a fool out of yourself. I am not going to pretend your behavior is OK. I am not going to treat you as if you were mad.
I think he is affected by extreme egocentrism:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Egocentrism
I used to be in that state when I was about 17. But even for writing a journal here I still share some of those traits.Egocentrism was derived from Jean Piaget's 1951 theory of cognitive development. Egocentrism refers to an inability to differentiate between self and other.[1]
An individual who is egocentric would meet the necessary and sufficient criteria of:
1) The individual is always under the assumption that all actions and events revolve around their existence.
2) The individual fails to acknowledge any perspectives other than their own.
An individual who meets only criteria 1 is identified as an narcissist. Although egocentrism and narcissism appear similar, they are not the same. A person who is egocentric believes they are the center of attention, like a narcissist, but does not receive gratification by one's own admiration. A narcissist is a person whose ego is greatly influenced by the approval of others while an egotist does not care for opinions of others. An individual who meets only criteria 2 is labeled as absolutistic. Similarly, egocentrism and absolutism appear to be the same but are not. An egotist is similar to an absolutist, in that both believe their opinion to be the greatest. They differ in the sense that an egotist's opinion must always allow everything to center around themselves, while an absolutist can form an opinion that does not center themselves, yet believes their idea and opinion is non contest.[2] Egocentricism most commonly appears in early stages of childhood. As a child grows older the manifestation of the egocentric traits either become more subtle or carry on to adulthood. The manifestation of egocentrism in adulthood can be similar or exact to that of childhood but less overlooked because of social constructs, dogmas, and norms.[3]
The interviewer, instead of just asking questions to the stars, forces the stars to make the interview about him instead of them, just like wikipedia said, he fails to 1) realize that it's not his time to be the star and 2) realize he's not being funny/appreciated:
"1) The individual is always under the assumption that all actions and events revolve around their existence.
2) The individual fails to acknowledge any perspectives other than their own."
I totally identify with him, because I used to be that way, being an only child and everything. You get used to so much attention, that you feel entitled to more than your share, and this in turn causes you many unpleasant situations, when you go look for that attention that others don't feel you are entitled to. You're going to try to get it at all costs, at the cost of degrading yourself.
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