This thread is making for excellent reading, thanks to small and big alike, there's a lot of info here, that taken together orms a good answer to my original question posed at the start of the thread.
How do us small guys make it big?
I'll attempt a summary (so far) here...
For us small guys, with our £1K, £2K or £3K, we've really no option but SB. It's easy access, fairly straightforward and allows us to employ the same principles and techniques as the big boys.
We've got no way of making it bigger faster, so have to accept that we're in this for the long haul. We've got to take our staring capital and work with it over a period of say 2-3 years, aiming for Skimbleshanks' continual 'double' until be get to a stage where we've got a decent level of cash...say £10K-£20K.
At that point we're probably onto the next rung of the ladder and can move from SB to direct access, benefit from the pricing of trading futures directly and start to increase our capital again, and again and so on...
At this point, we've still probably not given up the day job - how could we...as Zow and others have pointed out, we need to have our trading capital seperate from our lifestyle finances.
5 years on from now, I might just be in a position to pack the job in and go off with my accumulated cash and start to trade for a living...but what standard of living can I generate with £50K - as Zow points out, maybe not a good enough one to sustain me and my family.
So, accept it, we're going to have to spend the next 10ish years in this game before we can consider giving up the job and living the home trader lifestyle...I can handle that thought, retire in 10 years and just trade for a living...problem is, do I have the discipline to get there?