I complete agree with you. I don't see how options is less or more risky than stocks more or less. Especially since options are derivatives of stocks.
Well, it is. Because if you buy a call option when the price is going up the time value on that option will go up disproportionately with reference to the true value. Therefore, even if the price does not reverse, the time value will.
Therefore, figure. If it is difficult to make money on a rising share price and a deteriorating time value, what chance do you have if the share price reverses?
Example:
Share price on purchase of 3000p. Options= 80p.
Shareprice on exercise date 3080p = Option value = 80p ie. You get your money back, less commisions and, remember, if you start hedging with straddles, etc, you pay commisions on every transaction.
You have to figure out, correctly, where the share price will be, on expiry, to give you a satisfactory porcentage profit on your investment.
I'm not trying to say that experts do not make their bread and butter from this--I'm sure that they do-- but that newcomers must beware of the easy money trap, because it is the newcomers who are bringing fresh money into the market.
The market only loves you if you have money. Once it has your money, the market does not want to know you but will look for the next source of income.
Happy trading!