I bail before it gets ITM. The other risk is market gaps between close of trading and settlement. I use Probability of Touching here as well in inform my decision on bail or let expire.
Excellent, but this, in the grand scheme of things, is neither here nor there.
You're missing the simplest, most fundamental fact that there are ONLY two ways to make money in the mkts. You state that you're not doing either, which is extremely unlikely, if not impossible.
It would seem that a deep understanding of my edge so that I can explain it eludes me. No argument there. I'm at a loss on how to overcome this shortcoming.
It's simple. Try to directly address the specific questions that have been asked. Also, if I were you, I would try to stay away from the "I've generated this mighty return so far"/"my backtest looks great"/"it's worked fine for me so far" line of argument. It just doesn't mean much wrt option strategies.
I am an engineer and do understand the aerodynamics of flight, however I don't believe that most students in flight school ever really do. Yet they turn into successful pilots.
If you wanna be that sort of pilot, be my guest. However, are you honestly telling me that, given the choice of which sort of pilot you'd rather be, you would prefer to be one that doesn't get it? From my personal experience I can tell you, in all honesty, that the ones that don't understand DO get what's coming to them, sooner or later. This is a fundamental truth and I can give you countless examples.
I do however understand in great depth my management techniques. And that is what not only generates extra profit, but most importantly, it keeps me and my students our of serious trouble. If I did not believe this deeply, I would not consider teaching what I do.
Maybe you do, but then why can't you explain it? Also, with all due respect, don't you think a bit more humility is in order here? I have been doing this sh1t for years and I KNOW for a fact that I don't understand risk management in as great a depth as I would like. I also wouldn't, for a single second, presume I know enough to teach someone, especially if that someone actually pays me money.
And, Howard, I am not giving up on you... Not at all. As I said, I find this stuff interesting and you're, honestly, a vast improvement over some of the coconuts we've had discussions with here. So it's all good.