pboyles, so far you are being proved right, however I do feel I am learning a lot from my trades. The initial emotion is tough to deal with but now I've already looked back at my trade and evaluated it and found that my entry was wrong again. The entry I was meant to take came up three bars later of which I didn't take. That would've given me 20 points at least and covered 4 losses. The error was the execution was not correct. My first two trades of the day were spot on to my strategy and am pleased with them, hence, I can easily let them go and continue to think in probabilities.
What do you mean when you say "without fully understanding what is going on?"
When people actually say things like demo trade until you know what you're doing and don't scalp and spread bet, how do I know how credible a person is to listen and follow through with what other people say. In my view I see my back testing and paper trading to be credible enough for me to believe that the probabilities are in my favor. I'm not saying that people who say these things are wrong, for all I know they may be right, and yes I can check what they've written before and their past threads etc but is it really enough for me, someone newish, to believe in them?
People only learn from their mistakes. It embeds a memory that is recalled when a similar environment comes up again where the mistake happened. The reason as to why people fade away is because people may not be able to handle being wrong and so have left trading altogether or trying another route as they do not want to face the reality that losses happen and people make mistakes. If it's the case where people have left due to losses then it is probably better they didn't trade because the nature of trading, as I understand it, is to accept you will have some losses.
My trading strategy is not based on hope or optimism. It is based on tests I have done and have now come to a stage, in these two weeks that are available to me, that I want to train my self and learn to become a professional trader. It is based on calculated probabilities that are set to be in my favor, as I see it. Whether I am able to execute and control my emotions is the next step for me, personally.