Apologies in advance if this seems like a life story, i'll try keep it brief.
Bought a few stocks at university, graduated from university, applied to accountancy jobs, didn't get them. Applied to investment banks as I always wanted to do something in that. Wasn't successful. At the time I was semi-interested in trading and did an occasional bit.
Tried doing all sorts of stupid stuff spread betting, jumping about scalping ftse, wall st, then I decided to do some shares. I risked about half my account on some trades. I thought it was pretty normal. Won some, lost some - realised I was punting and decided to stop. Spoke with another trader and he told me the conventional stuff, using 20 pt stop losses and I was risking 3%/account on each trade. It was just too swingy and I was having 20% swings in my account on a regular basis. I started messing around with small stops and putting on really small stops <10 - I figured I could lower my risk so it'd be easier to be profitable by going for reasonable profits which are achievable and even do double size. If you would normally risk 2% account over 20 pips and going for 40 pips on a trade. Then if you risk 7 pips and go for 20 pips (which should be easier to get in the market) using 2% you'll be better off. Right? RIGHT?
Eventually realised I was just burning through money due to my discipline and I just wasn't that good and stopped. Then I learnt an important thing. Leverage and not too use too much of it. I started trying to go for bigger moves and this isn't conventional advice and something i've learnt from experience. But I opted not to use a stop loss on my account and not to take a loss unless it jeopardised the future of my account. I had also started averaging positions. This actually worked great in a trending market. I wasn't really doing anything special but buying on dips and not even with huge levels of accuracy, just basic support/resistance and looking for dips and waiting for the bounces then getting in.
I was doing this on eur/usd mainly as it was the most predictable and also it's a liquid market with low spread. I'm a bit of a gambler at heart though and I did try it out on chf/jpy too. I was doing well on it, but then I averaged a trade 3 times and lost about 20% of my account before I admitted defeat. I vowed to stick to eur/usd, topped up my account to a whole number and stayed with it. I made it all back and more over the last few months. I thought I was doing great and had it all nailed. Then things got messy, dubai/greece/$ strength and BOOM - before I know it i've got 3 positions on eur/usd and it's dropping like hell and my losses are growing. I admitted defeat and took 20% hit which halved my profits for the year.
If you're still here then there's somewhat of a silver lining I guess. I learnt to try manage my losses. I'll be using stops on my trades and not taking such big losses. Also if things look bad to just not bother with it and not to average. It's better I lose £xxx now rather than £xxx,xxx? somewhere down the line. I did trade eur/usd and sometimes gbp/usd. But i've been having more success lately trading usd/jpy with a smallish stop and I think there's a good chance i'll be trading usd/jpy and maybe usd/cad (less certain) if they look good in the new year. I'm just going to see what I make of the markets in january because for now i'm not sure if I want to be long or short of gbp/usd and eur/usd.
For you, i'd really recommend getting an account somewhere you can trade smaller as it's going to work out cheaper if you're learning. When you have a £500 account and £1/pip you're still taking big risk and unless you have some significant edge it'll only be a matter of time before you lose it. I've been there and thought up all the excuses to myself at the time, but fact is I was trading too big relative to account size and in an unprofitable way. You'll have time further down the line to make the mega-bucks, but for now it's important you don't lose significant amounts preventing you from trading at a later point.
Think i'll end it there - i'll pop back after I get off the phone from the book deals.