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BLS (and anyone else who cares to answer) do you mind me asking how you manage to not put on a single trade over the course of a trading session?
I know the obvious answer but I guess the reason I'm asking is because I personally find it really hard - the waiting patiently for a clear and unambiguous set-up.
I have to be honest and say that I find is SO SO difficult. And then when I do take a sub-par trade out of boredom or impatience etc I hate myself for it and feel like I'm making no progress; maybe even regressing in some ways.
Sorry for going on, I know it's my own personal **** but I find handling myself, my emotions, my discipline etc etc the hardest thing by a mile.
For example - I take a trade that I shouldn't have and immediately lose money. I am then angry at myself for not following the plan and, quite rightly, being punished for it. I then want to get the money back and this affects my judgement (hard to control the revenge trading situation). Things can quickly spiral out of control.
Also, say I diligently follow the plan and take 3 or 4 losses in a row I find it hard to keep my confidence up.
Sorry for the rant, especially since I know this thread is primarily related to discussing set-ups/trades, but I would be very interested in what people have to say about how they deal with the learning process, set backs, their emotional/mental state etc.
Also, how do people afford to sit at their desks day after day and not make any money???
This is my main concern right now.
I think it's all about having the right mindset, and by mindset I mean being fully aware of what is it exactly that you're supposed to do - having the long-term picture in mind, understanding that you do not need to trade, understanding that you trade probability, understanding that you can only work with what the market gives you no matter how hard you try.
My problem is that I lose it over the week, maybe just for a while, but that while is enough to make a mistake that will cost me.
So the thing I'm going to try for next week is this: I'll print various quotes (that describe the mindset) and place it around me to keep me in check. To have the core of that 'right mindset' right on the eyes the whole time.
I will also write a plan for the week of what is it I want to achieve. I realized that sometimes after hours of still sitting I suddenly need pips (subconcioussly), because afterall it's the only thing that can "justify" that I was sitting inactively for the better part of the day so far. So I'll set my goals to something like "taking valid trades; not taking invalid trades; focusing on charts more".
What I found interesting is that I think I actually got worse in this, I don't remember having these 'psychological issues' a month or two back. But maybe it's because I'm setting a different standard on myself with passing time and now I actually understand why certain trades were terrible.
Oh, and I'm also going to invest money to some more comfortable chair, that should make things easier.