"There is no need to take it personally" ....and theirin lies the problem , some people can't do this ..responses even when not directed at them specifically get interpreted by them as 'personally' applicable to them ...it's egotistical self centred behaviour ...in a sentence..grow up and move on ..by the time you are old enough to inhabit places like this you might reasonably be expected to have outgrown the children's playground mentality ...zero sympathy ...LOL I'm done