If I look at the successful traders I've met, that there is existence of an "edge" is not in doubt (although this is probably stating the obvious).
How then, is an "edge" derived? Either the person does intense amounts of research and/or studies the market(s) for several years, or they are particularly well connected/informed (or indeed all of these). In addition, the successful traders are necessarily intelligent, but also possess the ability to look at the larger picture and to occasionally see what others are missing.
What worries me with your approach, Howard, is that you seem blithely unaware of why you think you should be making money, other than miraculously dodging bullets when things go wrong. Martinghoul is giving you the benefit of the doubt in suggesting that your edge is in picking overvalued spreads, but I just don't see it. Your position is more of an options book given all the different strikes, so at the very least you should be aware how your delta, gamma and vega change when spot moves 1, 2, 5 and 10 pct (and monitor this daily - and realise what it all means!).
However, your risk management (and indeed your understanding of options) is stuck at a fairly basic level. I know you've built a pretty looking "dashboard" but this isn't enough, in my opinion.
There's not a lot left to say. I hope you don't get burnt, and maybe you'll work these things out in time. That's all.