i dont like all the negative things some people say on here its not making me feel good about starting to learn to trade, im already filled with doubts.
This particular game is unlike anything I ever encountered before, its ridiculously easy, but at the same time, its almost impossible.
A lot of this has to do with how you think, and again, there's no right or wrong way because one set of beliefs will work under certain circumstances, but hinder you at other times.
If I had an exact clone of myself I could probably teach them to trade my method, but anyone else would probably want and need to modify things to suit their own preferences. Its easy to think that you'll do anything as long as it makes money, but its far from that easy.
Reading forums will be extremely damaging to your development, its the worst thing you can possibly do at this stage. There are a few reaons for that:
a) most people here dont have a clue, and are not worth taking advice from
b) most people here are losers, and you really dont want to be associating with losers. Its likely that you wont be making money for a few years, and that you'll struggle to understand why. If you are in an environment where everyone is in the same boat, you run the risk of starting to believe that its not possible to make a profit. These feelings may be compounded by reading never ending stream of revelations regarding other peoples failures, dishonest vendors, and downright scams.
c) the minority who do know the score, know that experience isnt transferrable, and they understand that only you can gain that experience. They also understand that this is a journey that needs to be taken alone.
d) The most damaging aspect of forums is that unless you are very careful, you run a very real risk of developing unrealistic expectations in respect of returns, distribution of returns, win rates etc, and at that point you'll be completely screwed.
Its probably not what you wanted to hear, but its somewhere near the truth. You shouldnt be discouraged, give it a go, there's nothing to lose.