Antelope....
Good input - thanks for sharing your experiences.
Looking at your situation from the position of a more experienced trader I would make a few observations. Firstly, most of what you have written are things as you see them from a phsycological perspective. You are however largely correct in what you have written with respect to having to get used to losses. For me this is the most inportant point which you make in your post. This will largely dictate how successful you are in implimenting the overall system since a string of losses, even small losses, can cause certain types to start second guessing the system and stop taking the trades. Of course, when this happeneds, you end up missing the big winner which makes the whole thing profitable. Most swing trade systems require the market to trend somewhat to make any reasonable profit. At the moment, (ie within the month or so you have been implimenting the system) even though we made some new highs, the market is whipping around a fair bit in a kind of sideways or 'range' market which can cause problems for swing trades as the underlying market will often dictate the overall direction of share prices. I think you will find that, with this kind of system (and the firms trading results appear to back this up), you will get a series of trades which result in a number of gains and a number of losses which will about balance each other out - the profits come from odd one or two which turn into big winners. Your present draw down (ie the £260 which you are in overall loss) represents the 'costs' of speculation - ie the cost of being in the market and in a position where you might profit from a relevant market move in a particular stock.
If the 'costs' are too much and you are genuinely losing sleep of the matter then maybe you should consider a smaller position size. Part of learning to trade is understanding yourself. When unpleasant things happen, like a series of losing trades, your subconcious will associate the event with something which you similarly experienced before you started trading. As a result you will react in the manner which relates to your 'similar experience' rather than the way which is correct for the trading scenario - it is this that you must learn to control and understand. This is where your trading plan (if you made one) should help as this question you will have asked yourself already. Many people dont start with a trading plan as they dont understand things which they have not yet encountered. I would suggest that prehaps you investigate a trading plan.
Steve.