I watched an interesting program tonight with Professor Winston in it. It was about psychology of winning and losing. Nothing to do with trading, as such, although there was a bit at the end about Leeson. Basically there were a couple of relative points.
1. The fear of losing, and actually losing, wipes out any thoughts/possibility of being able to win........
2. If you think your opponent ( the market) is stronger than you, you will play your stakes down.
How true!.
So what can we do?
Eradicate the fear of losing. This must equate to rigid stop loss implementation such that it becomes just an unemotional exit. The cardinal sin here is to sit it out in the hope that it will come good. Well, maybe it will once in a while , but in the meantime you just get in deeper and deeper. The deeper you get in , the harder is is to get out. Make that an exponential relationship for good measure! Losing has to become nothing more that a wasted trade. If it makes you sweat, your stop is too long.
Your opponent is strong, very strong. There is no doubt about that. You have to believe in yourself that you can,over time be better than your opponent. Treat the situation as not a once only match, but a series of games. Like golf( I hate golf). You may lose a few holes, but at the end of the day, you have 18 to play. If you can win just 1 more than your opponent, you will win the match. Simplistic , I know, but that's how you should look at it.Get it into your mind that at the end of the day, you will lose some. You will win some too. Just make sure that the ones you lose are insignificant and the ones you win are good. I'm convinced that with any reasonable stategy,so long as you kill the losers swiftly and without fear, the winners will look after themselves.
Then and only then, can you set about optimising your winners, knowing no fear.
Forget about whether RSI should be 14 or 17, or MACD should be whatever, concentrate on your money management.
As for position size, the fear is equal for all. If you are betting 0.1% or whatever, it matters not if you pot is 1k or 100K. If 1k is all you have, then losing a substantial part of it brings about the same amount of misery as the guy who loses a substantial part of his 100K...... Better take the suggestion made earlier- put away some of your pot and avoid wipeout. There's no point in bragging about having 100K to trade with if you lose 25k of it. The guy who has 1k can be wiped out 25 times before he loses the same amount of money.... Hopefully , by that time, he would have learnt his lesson, become a better trader and be on his way to some serious capital growth.
These are just my thoughts and won't apply to everyone, We're all different and can handle the psychology in different ways.What does apply to everyone is the importance of loss management.