The difference was when I realised that the game was ALL about losses. Control those and you've got a chance, anyone has a chance.
But when I first started I though it was ALL about profits, make more than you lost and you'd be OK.
So I bet big, in relation to my stake, got plenty of winners but then right on cue 2-3 trades lost me over 50% of my account. Then I learnt all about how phycological the game really is...........
And when I read books ALL the pros banged on about the points above - ALL OF THEM. Let me repeat that again - ALL OF THEM.
So I swollowed my pride and said 'you know what, it's hard to admit but I don't know best here
". If these guys ALL say it then it must be true and who am I to argue.
That was the first breakthrough.
Subsequent breakthroughs were made over the coming years but very slowly.
Now all I do is focus on potential losses, focus on my risk (per positon and as a portfolio if I have a number of positions). I also have set rules that are CASTE IN STONE.
one of them - never lose more than 5% in a week.
Another one - Never lose more than 15% over a month. So if I have 5 positions on the 1st of the month and something big happens and I lose 15% (even when the trades are open, some of them might be in profit) then ALL trades are liquidated at market and NO MORE TRADING THAT MONTH - NO MORE!
So what I now know is this - It's virtually impossible for me to go broke in this business (if I stick to my rules) and because of that I'll still be in the game in 20 years (if I want). You on the otherhand Mo might make 60% today, possibly even 100% but then at the rate you're going you won't be here in 20 weeks, maybe even 20 days or even 20 hours................................
Like I said before hand it's not personal when we're having a go at you - even if you lose you might find the money is a great investment in the future as it tells you the wrong way to proceed.
Good luck and hope this helps. Whatever the case it's a good thread.