Yamato
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gee, finally
Finally I am home and away from the very stressful day.
At the end of the day, when I was about to leave, vito asked me if he could ask me a work question.
Now, if you ask me something like that, and in the morning your boss told you to not disturb me, it is yet another proof that he was not innocent.
So basically we all agree that he's the one who did this, but no one wants to say it because he'd have to be fired, that dick.
Furthermore, the questions he asked me were bull**** questions, only meant to test me and see how mad I was. And my message was: don't mess with my stuff, but I'll help you with work because I am still a fair person. But I'll defend myself if you mess with my stuff. Fair doesn't mean you can fool me. His message was "please be my friend" and "I am not mad for having been reported to the bosses" and "I am not mad because it was me and not the cleaning lady".
Since I had rehearsed this situation, i was ready to help him. My policy is this: I will evaluate your behaviour on a daily basis, and respond with stick/carrot depending on how you behaved.
The stick of this morning (via the bosses) was for flipping my scanner on Friday. The help I gave in answering your bull**** questions tonight was for your good behaviour today.
The idea is: you behave well, I treat you well, and viceversa. This of course only because I can't kill him, so I have to keep a reasonable relationship with him, and maximize profits and minimize losses (I can't make permanent enemies, or they'll add up in time).
Also, I talked to my aunt, to tell her how it went.
She said that probably his messing with my stuff was like a revenge for the fact that I didn't accept to be his friend on his terms: I refuse his camaraderie, touching, give me five, talking... all that crap. All his stupid talk... I refuse him, and it shows. I don't care what he says. I consider him stupid. I always treated him fairly though, despite considering him stupid: I took him to the restaurant, I helped him, I let him keep light, window and door as he wanted them for half of the day. I am a fair person. The problem arose when he started behaving unfairly.
I think I've won this one. Hopefully there will be no more surprises in the future, because otherwise he'll be going against a few bosses, not just me. You can't just have fun at my expense, being only an intern, and without facing any consequences.
I am used to this type of thing. I am intolerant, I find people who resist me, but since I am right, I basically end up having my way. Yes, it's not normal that I don't like to talk and don't like to joke around, but if I want to just work and be taken seriously, you can make fun of me behind my back all you want, but you've got to let me work, and - since we're at the bank - you can't mess with my stuff either.
I know on the other hand that if we were in highschool i would pay for it big time, because you always have to pay if you don't fit in and you are not willing to beat people up. I did neither and I had to pay for it: such as getting some stuff stolen and damaged, by the evil people and their helpers. If you're not willing to conform to the norm, you have to be ready to fight or find a place where you can be alone and be the norm. You know what I mean? The Harvard intellectual is not going to hang around football players, or he'll get screwed for being himself and viceversa. Basically it's the same for everyone, and we're all minorities depending on where we go, in terms of age, race, gender, religion, ideas... etcetera.
Well, on this journal I am not a minority at least. And anyone who disagrees with me gets banned from the journal, so this is actually the opposite of what I've experienced in life. Here I can be in control. But after all, despite small intervals, I've always managed to control the situation that surrounded me. To the extent that I managed to become a control freak. Yes, because if you can't control almost anything and you grow up with a brother... you become tolerant. If you instead are only child and have everything under control, you do the opposite and will always try to gain control of the few things that escape your control. At least that's my guess given my point of view of being an only child. For example, if all of a sudden I found myself in a place where 9 people out of 10 are like Vito, then I'd probably give up on the idea of educating them and I would put up with all their abuses, until they eventually stopped. And I would even go out of my way to be liked by the vito-chimps.
But that's exactly why I turned to trading, as a means to make money and to put distance between me and the vito-chimps.
Finally I am home and away from the very stressful day.
At the end of the day, when I was about to leave, vito asked me if he could ask me a work question.
Now, if you ask me something like that, and in the morning your boss told you to not disturb me, it is yet another proof that he was not innocent.
So basically we all agree that he's the one who did this, but no one wants to say it because he'd have to be fired, that dick.
Furthermore, the questions he asked me were bull**** questions, only meant to test me and see how mad I was. And my message was: don't mess with my stuff, but I'll help you with work because I am still a fair person. But I'll defend myself if you mess with my stuff. Fair doesn't mean you can fool me. His message was "please be my friend" and "I am not mad for having been reported to the bosses" and "I am not mad because it was me and not the cleaning lady".
Since I had rehearsed this situation, i was ready to help him. My policy is this: I will evaluate your behaviour on a daily basis, and respond with stick/carrot depending on how you behaved.
The stick of this morning (via the bosses) was for flipping my scanner on Friday. The help I gave in answering your bull**** questions tonight was for your good behaviour today.
The idea is: you behave well, I treat you well, and viceversa. This of course only because I can't kill him, so I have to keep a reasonable relationship with him, and maximize profits and minimize losses (I can't make permanent enemies, or they'll add up in time).
Also, I talked to my aunt, to tell her how it went.
She said that probably his messing with my stuff was like a revenge for the fact that I didn't accept to be his friend on his terms: I refuse his camaraderie, touching, give me five, talking... all that crap. All his stupid talk... I refuse him, and it shows. I don't care what he says. I consider him stupid. I always treated him fairly though, despite considering him stupid: I took him to the restaurant, I helped him, I let him keep light, window and door as he wanted them for half of the day. I am a fair person. The problem arose when he started behaving unfairly.
I think I've won this one. Hopefully there will be no more surprises in the future, because otherwise he'll be going against a few bosses, not just me. You can't just have fun at my expense, being only an intern, and without facing any consequences.
I am used to this type of thing. I am intolerant, I find people who resist me, but since I am right, I basically end up having my way. Yes, it's not normal that I don't like to talk and don't like to joke around, but if I want to just work and be taken seriously, you can make fun of me behind my back all you want, but you've got to let me work, and - since we're at the bank - you can't mess with my stuff either.
I know on the other hand that if we were in highschool i would pay for it big time, because you always have to pay if you don't fit in and you are not willing to beat people up. I did neither and I had to pay for it: such as getting some stuff stolen and damaged, by the evil people and their helpers. If you're not willing to conform to the norm, you have to be ready to fight or find a place where you can be alone and be the norm. You know what I mean? The Harvard intellectual is not going to hang around football players, or he'll get screwed for being himself and viceversa. Basically it's the same for everyone, and we're all minorities depending on where we go, in terms of age, race, gender, religion, ideas... etcetera.
Well, on this journal I am not a minority at least. And anyone who disagrees with me gets banned from the journal, so this is actually the opposite of what I've experienced in life. Here I can be in control. But after all, despite small intervals, I've always managed to control the situation that surrounded me. To the extent that I managed to become a control freak. Yes, because if you can't control almost anything and you grow up with a brother... you become tolerant. If you instead are only child and have everything under control, you do the opposite and will always try to gain control of the few things that escape your control. At least that's my guess given my point of view of being an only child. For example, if all of a sudden I found myself in a place where 9 people out of 10 are like Vito, then I'd probably give up on the idea of educating them and I would put up with all their abuses, until they eventually stopped. And I would even go out of my way to be liked by the vito-chimps.
But that's exactly why I turned to trading, as a means to make money and to put distance between me and the vito-chimps.
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