I have a great anxiety and energy to spend to try and change my life:
1) I don't like living with my father
2) I don't like working at the bank
If I quit the bank, I can move to the sea. I must find a way to quit job and quit house. That mother ****er just wished me goodnight again, by calling my name out loud, each mother ****ing time. We're just two in this house, why does he have to call out my name each time he says good morning, "good morning, travis", "goodnight travis", "hi, travis". **** you, man. You don't have to call my name each time. Each time I hear you I get a stomachache. If you call my name you give me insomnia. Each time he says "goodnight", I reply "goodnight" and then whisper "**** you".
Anyway, I must quit this place and this job. But what can I do? Trading discretionary is out of the question with this state of mind. My anxiety, my restlessness, my dad's voice, my desire to kill my boss... all these things interfere with my trading. A loss triggers all these feelings within me and I feel like killing the market, whereas it's a bunch of other people whom I should have killed earlier in my life, but I didn't and now I take it out on the market and on my own capital.
So discretionary trading is out of the question until I will have this state of mind, which could be forever or at least until I am here.
Yeah, because to get out of here, I need to trade, but if I am here I can't trade, so there is no way out.
The only way out is automated trading. Strictly automated without any intervention by me.
I wish I had that 13k I had when I started talking about this stuff in the Fall. Now I've got nothing thanks to my last attempts at trading discretionary. I blew it all.
I remember someone here, a reader wanted to give me his money, and luckily I didn't take it, because I would have lost it. And I remember I told these guys: do not try to teach me discretionary trading because it will be my ruin. But hell no: everyone had good advice: "it's easy", "do this, do that"... eventually I gave in, started again, lost everything.
I would have done it anyway probably. But it didn't help. This goddamn journal is a good thing for the discretionary trader, but not for the automated trader, who should just stay away from trading and trading forums, because he doesn't need... But I guess I wasn't fully automated either. Besides more good than bad came out of it.
Not that I am ending it here. Just a summary of the last four months, because that's how long I've been writing.
The possibilities now are two:
1) Making one trade a week on the GBP, just trades that I'm absolutely positive about, with a 90% probability of winning.
2) Taking my third loan from my bank, taking the usual 10k out, and trying to triple it again, then paying the loan back immediately, as I did in the past. This time I wouldn't blow it like I did before, by trying to "help" my systems.
Of course, no one can be sure that this time I wouldn't lose everything I borrowed and be screwed for the rest of my life. Who knows. It could happen.
The safest thing would be to trade the GBP once a week, only when I am absolutely positive. But guess what. That means that I could miss a stoploss, because that is what happens when I am absolutely positive about a trade. That's when I blow out my account.
Whatever I will do, I must remember not to kill myself nor kill anyone around me. That's the number one thing. Because if I die, then I can't get to the bottom of this thing. And if I go to jail, I won't be able to trade either. I want to get to the bottom of this thing. If it cannot be profitability with discretionary trading, at least profitability via automated trading, and I mean profitable every month. With the proper money management, and using only the good systems, and the us dollar index filter it can be done.
Plan:
1) Do not kill anyone
2) Do not kill yourself
3) Keep going to work as usual
4) Keep practicing the stoploss
5) Keep paper trading and do not invest real money until you're profitable