I actually am with deadbroke, on the greek fisherman anecdote. i have just returned from a nice stay in new york and Toronto, two great places. However it feels like a lie, it was a lie, i was in some of the best hotels ect, it was full of old men with trophy blondes, who were surrounded by designer bags w,e ferrari's you name it, the hotel was full of gold diggers (toronto mainly, hey its a boom aint it')
but it all felt like such a lie, the gorgeous women were little more than prostitutes throwing themselves at a man who without money have no plus points, i suppose the men saw the women as worthless whores, and the women saw the men as credit cards who need to be paid with handjobs,
the stupidity of this rich club, where everyone was in a constant (unofficial, unplanned but constant) competition to appear to be the wealthiest because without those vachyron constantine's and ferragamo loafers, there is nothing inside, the conversation was dull the people devoid of any humanity, but still we played this little game in which ones only attribute was the amount of dollars in a bank account, or atleast the only one that mattered, from the outside the people would observe thinking perhaps as i did as a child looking on, what pleasant lives theese people must have, how priveliged they are, but the reality was that it was all some fascade,
i went shopping and see the ferragamo loafers, a watch from porsche, theese things were no different from cheap models you find in shops, yet they had to be bought because of the name and the implied value, the implied value owning them would bring to your status, the friendships forged by thinking perhaps if i network better i will have more money and be more "important", the women who were nothing more than prostitutes or the men who thought that maybe they had a loving wife, or the people all together throwing down 15$ for a beer that back home comes in multipack deals 72 for 20£, everyone wanting to impress by drinking in the same overpriced bar because somehow it made them better than the peasants outside, that somehow each number in a bank acc mattered, the grand thing is the whole delusion was complete, everyone bought into it, the sad thing really sad thing is, theese people were wasting there hours pursuing consumerism whole heartedly believing it would make them happier, like those 900$ feragamo loafers are somehow superior to some 40$ nikes, as if the more goods they had would make them happy, they had millions yet, would never spend anything but the interest (still a balling amount) because to them, money is how you keep score and if they were to lose some wealth they would be implicity less valuable in there circle of friends.
I had to get that off my chest, for sometime i guess i was caught up in the whole wealth thing, wanting to be richer, ect, but it really made me sad to see the vacous emptiness that theese people live in, with little value to friendships or enjoyment, it made me realise that the best things in life i have done, have had little to do with wealth, it was sitting out in the woods freezing my ass off wearing old track suits drinking beer infront of a stinking awfull fire.
i dunno why i even wrote this, i guess it was just that what we percieve as sucess is the man in deadbrokes story, happiness is found in experience's not bank notes. i guess when we are trading alot, we can sort of lose sight of what really matters, pe ratios money ect, its all about family good food, experiences as fun, my experience sorta blew the lid off the matrix for me so to speak, i just looked around and thought, this cant be living, its a game of fraud and everyone here either knows it, or is just too stupid to realise, the pursuit of wealth for wealth sake is insidious and foolish, cherish those around you, wealth opens up new experiences, but its sickening to see the falseness of the rich, we have cancer aids, destroying lives left right and center, and because of this facade we send our best and brightest to become investment bankers, or plastic surgeons, so we can give women bigger tits while little jonny dies of lukemia.
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so yeah my admiritation of wealth has been destroyed by looking at something objectively lol.