Manicman,
Well, I am sometimes unable to work for long periods due to illness, so I have to find another source of income to look after my family, hence why I am so committed to learning this stuff. So I have lots of motivation.
Lessons:
1 Don't start out risking large amounts of cash. If you want to use real money, start with pennies rather than pounds. It is amost a certainty that you will lose money whilst learning, so the less you put down, the less you lose. If you put everything you have down, like I did then you have nothing to trade with once you know a thing or two.
2 Don't trade small timeframes, trade the daily timeframe only when starting out.
3 Learn a method, I'm a fan of price action (watch some of oztraders videos on youtube), and make trades based on that method, take time to identify specific signals, don't make trades based on emotion and impetuousness.
4 Learn good money management principles, don't risk more than 2% on any single trade. Don't increase your exposure once you start losing. Expect to lose. Learn about position sizing. Always use a tightish stop, limit your risk, if you don't the market will take it all.
5 Don't open more than 1 trade on the same stock or pair at any one time. Don't double your risk by trading similar pairs in forex at the same time.
6 Move your stop to breakeven once you are in some profit, and take profits once your target has been reached.
7 Don't form a pre-conceived idea on where the market is headed to the point where you fail to react to changes in the market. Trade signals and think short-term gains.
8 Do some self-analysis. Think about what sort of trader you are. Think about your weaknesses and how you can overcome them. Also analyze your trades and identify mistakes and how you can eradicate them next time.
9 DO NOT OVERTRADE
10 DO NOT OVERTRADE
And to completely contradict Point 1
11 Lose an obscene amount of money in your first few months.
(It was a blessing in disguise for me. I hate to lose money. So I will never give up until I make back what I lost. Never giving up is what it is all about.)
Yes, I work. I teach English in Japan. I get some free lessons at school in which I read books on trading and can keep an eye on my trades online. I spend a few hours each evening in front of the computer. I spend a couple of hours at the weekend planning trades in the week ahead, looking for possible opportunities. So I would say I spend about 15 hours a week trading. I also play poker to fund my trading, and do that mainly at the weekends, and in the evenings on quiet trading days, about 15 hours a week. I am only just beginning to build an account.