darktone
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Can't you guys live and let live or is it all too much for your egos [emoji38]
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Anyways, hell be back I bet
Can't you guys live and let live or is it all too much for your egos [emoji38]
The sensitivity on this forum is at all time high never seen it at this level .
I blame you Tar
if you hadn't questioned my maths i probably wouldn't have gotten into this
Its your day chalky , today is the ECB's day ...
to many ego wrestling on those boards always holding constantly absolute truths which in my humble perception translates in absolute BS.
Many healthy discussion are killed by those strong opinion/beliefs, here the egos can get very aggressive (fear) in defending something that exist only in their mind, showing a luck of maturity as a trader and as a person.
(of course here I am not referring to anyone in particular...)
Strong egos dont accept criticism they take it personal and they flat our refuse to accept the fact that others may disagree with them , they dont want to hear any criticism , so they refrain to name calling , sarcasm and lulz , and lastly they use the "its your ego" card . As they say the best defense is a good offence . Its a two way street .
Strong egos dont accept criticism they take it personal and they flat our refuse to accept the fact that others may disagree with them , they dont want to hear any criticism , so they refrain to name calling , sarcasm and lulz , and lastly they use the "its your ego" card . As they say the best defense is a good offence . Its a two way street .
At at deeper lever it is wanted to be right, fear kicking in, fear of death.......
Lets be honest, we all have an ego, especiality traders, that is why we are traders or wanted to be.....
But that is not a problem per se' having one, the problem rises when we are not aware of it and we let it run our lives or our trading.
Egos are rigid because they are scared.....
Markets are not rigid but the opposite, they are fluid....that's why having a grasp of oneself is essential in today's trading...
But knowing it or reading the Douglas' book will not be enough, we need to get down to the nitty gritty, here emotions will arise and mr ego will come to dance....
Knowing it, letting be without creating obstacles to our goal is not easy, but patience, generosity courage, humility and honesty will help.
Strong egos dont accept criticism they take it personal and they flat our refuse to accept the fact that others may disagree with them , they dont want to hear any criticism , so they refrain to name calling , sarcasm and lulz , and lastly they use the "its your ego" card . As they say the best defense is a good offence . Its a two way street .