Could you elaborate on this point?
Yes - no problem
I can use my own experience as an example.
Before I went full time - I had the normal ideas put out by the industry
ie Learn to trade - start with say $5k or $10k then after you had successful method - compound ie grow your account balance and keep increasing your stake size in correlation with your increased capital. So If I could grow my account to say $25 k I could trade with say 1 or 2 lots . If then after a year or two I got to $40k or $50k I would be on 3 or even 5 lots etc.
Maybe after 5 years of continual growth - you would make it to say $100k and then you would carry on growing to say a quarter of a million - or even a million all within 10 years or so.
Well to me - its all just theory if you are using your own money and trading it yourself
In my case I got to over $200k and was increasing my lot size by 5 lots every few months and at that time thought i would make half a million within the next 2 years.
Unfortunately - my larger stake entries - took longer to get on - in some case - a whole minute or more and then my exits were no longer instant etc etc.
Then I had a couple of bad days and first time after a few thousand live trades had 7 consecutive losses - and I wiped out my last months gains.
That when I hit my wall - and panicked. The Psyche problem kicked in . I was no .longer thinking rationally - It took me than another nearly 6 months to get back to a decent size of stake again - and I was now flawed or "stained" - i realised that I could have bad runs - like my own black swan events and although I could accept a loss of say $1000 on an intraday trade - I could not except $2500 or $5000 - even thought it was all relative in size to my account.
Mine was at 25 lots per pip ( in those days approx £170 per pip) Other traders using there own money might be OK at 2 lots or even 5 lots but at 50 lots or more - they would freak out on losses - as it would be their own money they would see evaporating out of their capital account - not a banks etc
I then realised normal retail traders will never get their heads around seeing losses of say $5k or $10k - even if they have similar size gains - its too large amounts for traders who are not already worth say half a million or more.
The psychological issue is huge.
However - if you can live within your limits - and still make a great return - do it that way - take your profits often - use them elsewhere - diversify in property or other investments - dont have all your eggs in one basket.
I had to completely change and nowadays I am far happier trying to make 25 to 50% every month on a 50 -70k size account and withdrawing profits fortnightly.
Please dont say it cannot be done. I and a few other traders I know are living proof
I agree 90% of all FX retail traders cannot keep it going for 3 or 5 yrs plus - but then there are guys like me - who have found the way to do it - trading in the now - not fortune telling
Would I do it for other traders - NO
Would I help other traders try and do it - free of charge - YES
Yes compound up to your financial wall limit - and then trade comfortable and forget trying 50 lot size etc etc
Regards
F