The comment you made about the similarities of our trading styles prompts me to answer, because I'm having great difficulty with extending my stops. In fact, it makes me so uncomfortable that I'm shelving the idea for a while, even though I realise I am likely to be more affected by spikes than I would, otherwise, be.
Another person who appears to be swinging around to this point of view is a new poster named cunparis who started his thread "Learning to trade etc" in which he links to a blog that I found very readable.
I thought that I would mention that, since you have used short stops and are trying to convert. It may be harder than you think (and I'm not a Scot).
To find his post, quickly, it was at 11:43 this morning.
Split,
Thanks I shall check out cunparis blog.
What really helped me to get my head around bigger stops was to back test all my stopped out trades using a function of ATR. (not meaning an arbitrary atr stop, but an arbitrary atr% away from the chosen S/R stop level.)
It is very hard to argue with the facts from the calculator.
Good luck with your stops too.