correlating "do-gooding" to "losing" doesn't work.
the corollary would be "evil winners".
there are large companies that give a poxy £2K to a charity, then spend ten times that amount on a PR campaign to promote their generosity. the now dated Red Nose Day or Children in Need show this to be the case.
why would you need any thanks? if you give with the expectation of thanks, then the basis for the generosity is on very shaky ground. you give because you believe in it.
There are bigger and scarier monsters to get. South Korea for example. Nor do we want to upset the monsters in Saudi Arabia. But we seem to want to fight the low-hanging fruit in Libya.
I have not been brain-washed. I am quite capable of assessing information, acquiring info from multiple sources, including foreign sources, to get a multi-dimensional view before deciding. True, I am a state schooler. Your inference I support no-fault, hand-out, left-wing beliefs is a false assumption.
I refuse to be apologetic for considering the human costs above that of abstract policies.
Now, onto the bit that caused my ire; population.
People in developing countries don't have kids because they are sex-mad.
It is because the women are not in control of their own fertility.
Coupled with this is illiteracy, and therefore access to information and resources.
The reason there is such a high number of pregnancies is because they have a high infant mortality.
A very large number of children die before the age of 5 through mostly water-borne diseases.
They have large families because they anticipate many of their kids to die before reaching maturity.
A bit like the typhoid, cholera, diptheria, tuberculosis and polio infested Victorians. Victorians also had large families. Because they experienced a high infant mortality.
Once they could confidently have children, through vaccinations, clean water and better healthcare, knowing their kids would reach adulthood, family sizes fell; to such an extent we now have fewer children than are needed to support the aged.
In light of lack of resources, people become the resource.
There is a whole set of aspects relating to lack of social services and healthcare in developing countries which I wont go into.
EDIT: In light of lack of resources, people become the resource.
The world population may well double. But not in the western nations. Only in developing countries.
Give them clean water, vaccinations, and healthcare, equal rights giving women the rights over their bodies, those countries might slow up.
Take India as a microcosm for example.
The rural regions still have large families, high infant mortality, and population growth puts stress on the land.
The urban areas of educated Indians with better health access etc, the "new middle class", have smaller families.