Yeah I agree with Gecko, I'm using TT, they have a few very handy options for traders like us. I've heard another one called Stellar is also pretty decent but not sure how you can get it and I've never used it myself, just seen a few guys who have and they seem to like it. One of the main things with TT(and Stellar I guess) is the cumulative trades, so it solves the problem you're having with trying to add up how many trades went through after the initial lot, TT does that for you, so if it ticks up, the initial lot at the higher price will be green, then it changes to white and adds the rest of the trades on to it as they come through at that same price, so you can see when a 1000+ prints into one price or area for example.
I find the Eurex pretty good for this stuff, I usually trade the Bund, I don't use charts, just watch the order book and its a reasonable market for it. Main thing is to just stick with one market, don't keep swapping and changing, for sure change if you want when you know what to look for, most of the games they play are the same or pretty similar, its just the way they are executed etc. (thin or thick market)
If you stare and trade flat out, record everything you see, jot down ideas you come up with and keep thinking, think contrarily, look for patterns between markets, this does that when that does this etc. If some size in the book is real or not, whether bids or offers are being pulled or taken out, refreshing bids and offers etc. If you really want to learn to do it, you need to put in the hours and you will start to see things.
...oh, and keep track of when POMO days are hehe :whistling