Granted, rugby is a lot tougher than football, and a lot of footballers act like babies by diving, crying, etc. etc.
However, i do not fully agree that football is for whimps. Football is actually a pretty tough contact sport - just ask Andy Cole (after Neil ruddock broke both his legs in one tackle).
Compared to rugby, sure, soccer looks soft, but i would argue that rugby is an unneccessarily macho sport, (especially RU).
EG. cauliflower ears. These appear to be a real status symbol in RU.
EG. The scrum. Why not do more of the players involved wear protective scrum caps to save from injuries like cauliflower ears? is it because on some level they want the cauliflower ears due to them being a status symbol :idea:
?, or they so crave attention & recognition, that they do not wish to obscure their appearance/peoples ability to recognise them with obscuring protective kit?
I have heard several ex-rugby players say that some incidents hurt like hell, but the rugby culture did not allow them to express their pain, or eg. anger at the foul play that led to the pain/injury (eg. a player is on the receiving end of a high tackle. The referee invariably will do little about high tackles, and the recipient invariably get up & gets on with it, with little-no complaint
. So whats the point in partaking in a sport/activity where the participants feel unable to express their true thoughts/feelings/natural response to things such as pain, for fear of ridicule & the need to stick to a macho code of conduct?
So in a sense, the conduct of rugby players can be quite fake/un-natural.
At least in soccer, players feel able to express their natural responses to things like pain.