yes you may be, but before i considered paying out, id want to know that the market never touched my price by any market maker etc.I would find any way of contesting the amount owed. Would you sell your house to pay a gambling debt?
Yes, you'd of course want to do due dilligence on that trade with your account or more on the line! However, if it's an oversight on your part of poor risk management during a price shock as you described, then unfortunately you or I would have to wear that loss, and they'll get their money in the end, even if you've got to flip burgers for 20 years. There's no such thing as going bankrupt to your broker.