i'm not kicking anyone. you post on a public forum so take the good with the bad.
just because i'm not fawning all over you it doesn't mean I don't sympathise with you but that's not my point.
my point is no one forced you to trade but you did and if you had made 3000 points by having the reverse position you wouldn't be moaning about how unfair it all is, you'd be dancing a jig to the bank and telling people how clever you are.
you bet on FX, its risky and you got caught the wrong way and took a pasting. its very sad and very unlucky but that's the business you dipped your toes in to. its no one elses fault and that isn't kicking someone when they're down its just speaking the truth.
My biggest dilemma with this industry is sometimes peoples lives are changed for the worst and that effects me. its why I always try and do things properly so I know in my own heart that I haven't had a role to play in someones downfall. you're all adults, you know the risks and i'm very sorry to hear that on this occasion you've had a life changing moment but posting on here looking for support is also going to draw other comments from people that know what happened and understand that when spreadbet firms say quite clearly 'You may lose more than your initial deposit' it is true. they aren't just words, it is a red flag that should say to you "you could lose the lot"
I hope you get your life back on track and your family is ok, I really mean that. I hope IG look at you sympathetically and you reach a fair compromise. I also hope you walk away from risky investments and do things in future that are more suitable for your net worth and your risk appetite because clearly FX is the last thing you need to be doing.
What you say about the risk is very true and I agree with what you say. However, I believe that forex dealers have a duty to protect the rights of their clients as well as they can. I am not sure that they have done this, because of the vast differences experienced between one trader's experiences and another's.
I do not blame the SNB, who were protecting their interests, but somthing was badly wrong in some dealerships.