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rfk_from_za said:
This may give me a bit more insight into the kind of thoughts I want to cultivate whilst I am trading in order to control my impulses and emotions in order to trade in a relaxed manner.
Does this clarify matters at all?
rfk_from_za
In Post 1 You accept Socrates ideas that you need to fix yourself before becoming consistently profitable. You also state that you want to be able to state “I can trade without any emotional attachment”
Yet – in post 4 you do not follow through what Socrates is saying about a trading persona, because you state “In terms of the Hope and Fear, I am of the school of thought that as human beings we experience emotions, and their is not all that much we can do about that, however I do believe we can train ourselves to experience different emotions based on similar stimuli”. Also in post 10 you state “I prefer 'Free' since it means you accept your emotion, but you don't let it affect your trading”
Here you are not of the opinion that you should detach yourself emotionally, but that you should merely try to change and control emotions. Socrates goes a lot further than this – you may care to read Journey from the Basement
Your thread is called “Installing New Beliefs” and point 4 of your opening post asks “How can we be open to all possibilities (even ones we know nothing about)”.
Fxmarkets picked up on this point in post 29. I perceive that you are not really open at present. In each of the suggestions others have made during this thread, there seems to be an undercurrent of defensiveness in your responses.
In your response to Twalker in post 4 you talk about your system with entry/exit points concluding “I think I have that part covered” . In your next response to Twalker in post 6 you state “Its fine telling people to keep a trading journal, but without telling them what should go in it, it leaves people to their own devices”. In your response to JO in post 24 you state “I understand where you are coming from, however this is not really what this thread is about”.
This eventually leads DB to ask “What is it exactly that you're trying to accomplish with this thread?” and again “rfk, I don't mind spending the time on this for now, but please don't make me pull teeth.”
So I think this is one area you should be looking at. Unfortunately no-one can tell you how to be more open, because the response to such a suggestion is inevitable. Only when one is ready will it happen.
You said in post 10
“Yeah, like I said in my first post
I am not looking for a quick fix, and I am willing to do whatever it takes for as long as it takes to become successful at this” and in post 13 “Thats not to say I am looking to be spoon fed solutions, I am happy to put in whatever effort is required in order to explore the techniques various people on this board use in order to improve their consistency and accept what the market is telling them.”
Yet again I don’t think you are really following this through. In post 1 you state
“I would really like to focus on actual techniques or
experiences that you have had that aided you in installing new beliefs (i.e. having an ah ha moment!) and neutralising existing fears”
I think, in reality, you are still looking for quick fixes and haven’t yet TRULY accepted the fact that it requires hard work and introspection.
In fact in varoius posts you fish for these quick fixes:
Post 4 - Would you care to share how you progressed to a state where you stopped second guessing your system or just how you increased your self-discipline in general
Post 6 - I understand that the information in these journals will be tailored to the individual, however it is often useful to contrast one's own methods with those in use by others in order to profile and improve the efficiency of the system.
Post 16 - In order to further the discussion of the practical aspects how have you (and others) improved your discipline with regards to execution of your chosen system. How do you stop yourself from second guessing it and doing things like widening a stop order or over-trading.
Post 20 - I also think it would be useful if we could come up with some exercises that members could try that would aid them in increasing their trading discipline. Even if no one actually tries them it would be a way of taking our concepts/beliefs and putting them down on paper in concrete examples.
Post 26 - Could you share how you manage a trade in terms of taking profits? I know this is an area of my trading that I need to really work on, but I am still exploring and learning about this area.
Post 28 - Hence the reason I wanted some insight in to how you manage profit taking, since that may help me see how you manage your expectations whilst trading.
As DB responded to you twice, it’s not really possible to provide the kind of answers you are probably searching for in message boards such as this. Going back to Socrates postings many people found them difficult to read and frustrating. This is because he did not provide a quick-fix response of the kind “If you do X then you will consistently win Y% profit”. You had to work at reading his animal stories and other postings to achieve that “Aha” moment.
I suspect that you will probably not like the answers I am giving you and they are NOT meant to be a criticism of you, but rather something to consider under the topic of Installing New Beliefs. I fully understand your desire to seek answers from others, but I don’t think you will truly find any of them will fulfil your requirements. Only you can do that.
So I sincerely hope that you get the insights that you need to become a successful trader.
Charlton