:| Still not sure how or why the last few pages have happened...
This is one of those times when you are supposed to take sides,
personally, that is the last thing I want to do.
Its a shame as Random and BSD both have a lot to offer here.
Worse still it seems to be a case of crossed wires.
I think the problem is neither of you are particularly aware of the others
historical posts, and so face value posts without context have
been taken the wrong way.
Its a shame, because if you both took the trouble to read quite a few of the
others posts, as I, and many others have done, you might realise neither of
you are that far apart really.
Maybe thats part of the problem, I don't know, I had a sense of this
coming earlier on in this thread...
This is purely about expectation - aim high or have more typical expectations.
Either way, for me thats just a way of putting a goal into perspective.
BSD - Aim high with a chance (albeit slim) of reaching that goal, but more likely,
achieve more than you would have done had you not aimed high.
Random - have more realistic expectations, but potentially
beating those expectations comes as a nice surprise.
Both ways of looking at it strike me as two sides of the same coin.
More than that, I think both ways of looking at it are a function of personality
and personal experiences.
I can guarantee you both, whatever else you agree or disagree on,
you both share the same core principles and foundation that
really matter - risk control.
Everything else is just a by product of that.
I'd be highly surprised if either of you disagree with that