I totally agree, I can safely say I am that idiot...
I am going to start a clean slate in January. Do you recommend keeping trades open for a number of days? What kind of instruments do you recommend? Currencies seem too volatile.
Currently, I have a position open on BP Plc (JUN-11). opening position was 473.6, currently 475.01
P/L: +£7.05
I think this will go up by June to the levels before the big oil leak.
I have tried currencies (EUR/USD), Crude oil, FTSE 100. I have made a fatal mistake of £5/£10 per point, although it worked for me on some trades but I think that may have been pure luck.
Probably.
I wouldn''t start with crude.
Or gold (like I did ...heh heh...).
EUR/USD isn't such a bad one to start on, but not at £5 or £10 per pip.
EDIT: I would encourage demo-ing, but would add that it can be both good and bad.
It is good because it gives you chance to make classic horrendous mistakes in a safe environment.
Not so good because (depending on provider) the platform may not behave quite in the same way, the charts not quite the same, and for example, you probably won't get the potential delays in filling orders that you are subject to on the live platform.
More important are the psychological factors. Ideally, you have to make believe it's your own, real money you are trading and use the same caution you would then. Personally I find that hard to do. Others may be better at it.
Once you trade your own money, you take it very seriously, but I don't need to tell you that.
IG are good; I don't have any complaints. I've also had good experiences at Tradefair, for example.
CS also worth a look. I'm currently demo-ing CMC markets, but I'll save my comments about it for the corresponding thread.
EDIT2: A not unreasonable, and relatively cheap, place to start (apart from some of the better "how to" type threads on T2W, is Malcolm Pryor's "The Financial Spread Betting Handbook". (Looking on amazon, he seems to have produced a few other works since, which I haven't looked at, but the first one is a good basic guide.