If I may..
Emotions are vitality, if you try to control them they will control you, awareness is a must to grow with them inside out, do not be afraid, stay with them.
Once you decide which are your best probability trades take them all and stick to your plan rigidly, do it for at least 20 trades, if you emotions are running high reduce your stake to a minimum.
For each trade you take, take notes, entry, exits, did you follow you plan rigidly? if yes, good, write it down, if not, take notes and reasons, also write down which should be your behavior to follow your plan rigidly next time.
After the 20 trades go back and have a look and learn from it. Go also back on your chart. Adjust your plan if required. Do it again for another 20 trades until you find your way. Walk the talk.
Let me add if I may.....
If you do feel afraid that is also fine, just be aware you are afraid and try not to push it away, more space your give to your negative emotions more they subdue, be aware though they will subdue only as a by product, if you try to subdue them by controlling it will not work.
Here your mind will also push and pull you in all corners trying to make difficult for you but as with emotions just be aware of your incessant thinking and do not get attached to it, you are not your thinking.....Meditation will help differentiate from it.....
The secret in trading is to find a style which relates to your personalty, but to find your style you need to be centered, once you are centered you will find your way. Following your plan and taking notes will also help in being centered, it does not matter if you lose or win, forget about the money, trade small, not demo, you need to follow your plan until you change it and because you are centered it will come to you when you have to change it, you will only change it to gain a better edge.... going back on your charts to spot where you could gain a better one will be a pleasure.
It does not matter what style you use, it can be techy, fundy, sh@tty or a combination of many.... do not get trapped in notions, do not listen to others but yourself...
The worst thing can happen to you is not to follow your plan and get awarded.......Mark Douglas will explain to you this issue better then myself...
I have attached an excel file for you to give you an idea but you can change how best it fits you....I have used Tar name in this example just for a bit of fun, I am sure he will laugh as well......And keep your sense of humor. With time, work and passion you will get there.
Once the proper behaviors is part of yourself probably you won't need the excel file anyone, but you always can go back to it when you need.
Said all that, this is how I see it and could very well not make sense you or anybody else.
Many paths can lead to understanding and wisdom.
Each of us has to chart our own course, and it has to fit what we are ready for.
Good luck. Fug