You'll never find the grail in a forum or a book. You just find doors and pathways.
Work hard and you might find something. Question yourself before you pay for any trading tips, training, systems etc... There is enough free information on the internet to show you the way. The most important tool in trading is you. Try TraderFeed it's filled with free information that might help some people.
I don't currently trade, I've tried and failed. I didn't have the commitment to make it.