But what are you after? If you are good at 'guessing' market direction, then just trade futures and f*ck options.
If you aren't apt at that then think about what you want to do. Are you good at saying what will happen? Are you good at saying what won't happen? Are you good at saying something will happen but hasn't happened yet? Make up your mind, what the hell do you want to trade?
Delta neutral essentially says that I am sh!t at market direction, but I think that something will or won't happen (depending on long vol or short vol), you need some kind of skill in the markets otherwise why the hell should you ever make money?
Why do you expect to make money without being good at something?
What I basically want to know before I can help you at all is:
Why do you want to trade options?
Are you a fundamental trader?
Are you a technical trader?
If you can't answer any of the above questions because you have no experience then perhaps you need to decide what you want from the markets.