Gedward3, what's a "spank shop"? Never heard that term. And the funny thing is, you say it can't be done in the UK---that's exactly where Loto World supposedly tried to do it first; probably why it didn't work out. And Mayfly, I'd love to write it off as a loss on my taxes but can't because the company hasn't filed any type of bankruptcy. I can't write it off in principle, though. I need to find out if I was definitely scammed/conned, and if the relative who advised me on this, was involved. Can't just let it go & count it as a lesson learned.