When I started out I didn't really have any problems with this. I think I started to mentally focusing on this too much and became silly about it as I have been starting to want to move from simulation to real money trading. I know I shouldn't let these things worry me. But I keep thinking of how in a casino at least you see who your taking losses from. Like for instance on the roulette table, a portion of people placing bets a long side me may lose and that money goes to the croupier while I perhaps win and it's basically their losses go back to the bank and then the croupier hands me my winnings. But at least you see who your playing against. In trading, you don't see that person.
Of course trading is not like betting in a casino. The odds are losing are not stacked up as high as in the casino. But I am sometimes silly and think that some of these people who sell to get out at a complete loss or a reduced loss are really unfortunate while I take the profit. For all I could know that trader that just sold to me and got me a fill could of been on his last dime and now I have taken profit and he's probably bankrupt or on the other hand it was a small lost to him as he's pretty well off still. It's just we are all sitting here behind computers placing transactions and don't see each other, don't notice what kind of people we are up against, we don't know there personalities. But in the casino we know exactly the kind of person they are. In a casino you can tell from the way they carry themselves, dress, what kind of watch they have, what sort of facial reaction they portray when they lose a bet to know whether they got money or are poor and that can mean taking consistent wins in a casino all the more less emotional for you as in you think to yourself ah there not like there poor and I won the bet so, so what then. But you know none of that in trading the stock market so emotions run wild. Anyone of you ever feel this?
So this is why ask, is there not another kind of investment vehicle or product I can trade which allows me to at least play against the big boys always like perhaps trading bonds or something similar. I wouldn't mind taking my profit out of losses from institutional traders as they got deep pockets and it's not like they care about losing a small loss here and there which is the small profit I am looking to make per trade.
I know still in the end of day this is a silly idea and I will just have to forgot about these ideas and trade the markets for real like I have been practicing in a simulator.
But still I would like to hear your opinions
Many thanks in advance