rc51rob - welcome to T2W!
I would avoid any stock picking service or software - there are many reasons why I believe this is just pure money down the drain. However, irrespective of my beliefs, for you and your pot size of trading capital the sums just do not add up for you to use a stock picking service.
You may not be aware that to trade more than 4 times in five days (I believe) you will need a minimum of $25,000 in your account. Therefore, your first few trades will have to be profitable otherwise you will continually need to top up your $25,000 in order to trade.
If there are 5 or 6 picks a day you will just run out of funds, as you will need to invest a sufficient amount in each of those picks to recoup a) your monthly fee of $195 to the service b) your monthly data and software fees c) your round-trip commission costs d) your trading overheads such as telephone, ISP, etc e) accountancy and tax advice for IR returns, etc.
And on top of that you will need to ensure you make a sufficient return on investment (ROI) to generate the profits to keep you and your wife with a roof over your heads and food in your tummies.
If I was in your shoes I would forget about trying to make trading pay, and just concentrate on spending 2-3 years to learn the tricks of the trade before even considering whether you can make a living from it.
With $5,000 in an account your only options are to either trade futures (very hairy unless you really know what you are doing) or swing trade equities. Swing trading is where you are trading the trends and staying in from 1-3 days usually and sometimes a lot longer.
Then you should find a pattern that you like, and concentrate on it. Just find that pattern forming in equities by scanning them each night, and build your skill level so that you know all the nuances of that pattern formation inside out and the other way around. Patterns could be double bottoms, triangles, pennants, wedges, head and shoulders. Just take one pattern only.
If you are swing trading and only looking at your stocks once a day (I presume you will be carrying on with the day job) you will need some EOD (end of day) software such as TC2000 from Worden Brothers.
www.tc2000.com This is relatively cheap ($29.75 per month for the data feed) and you will learn so much from just spending a couple of hours looking at the data each night. You can also use the software to scan for patterns, and formations, and of course indicators.
Then paper trade for a few months (I bet you won't!) to see how well you go. And only then consider opening a brokerage account.
You will learn far far more by spending $29.75 per month on your software and data feeds, and reading these boards than you will by spending the outrageous amount of $195 per month for any stock picking service.
And (I'm going to be cynical here - no surprises there) why do you think that anyone would provide a supposed stock picking service if they could actually trade themselves in the first place? The answer is that all vendors are just that - they are selling you products/services because they will make far more money that way than by trading themselves because they are just not up to it.
Sorry for the rambling, but there are lots of vendors out there who are just out to suck you dry of funds. With time and effort you can become far more skillful than any vendor, so start small and look on trading as a hobby. Only when you really have a cracking system should you ever consider taking it a stage further.
And good prosperity in whatever you choose!