It took me a few years to realise these points. Its not you against the market its you against yourself, yes you are your biggest nightmare. You are in complete control, the market is just there. You decide what to trade, when to take that trade, what your win will be, what your loss will be. You'll think the market knows your every trade because it will take your stop then move to your profit target. It will move to just shy of your profit target and will then move to take your stop. Trading is the biggest mind f**k you'll ever meet but with experience you might over come what others cannot. You have to be focused and disciplined at all times, you need a well thought out trading plan if you are to attain long term success. ITS NOT EASY
What you and every trader is looking for is a consistant return from your trades. How you build that
consistant approach is up to you, but you build it, you cant buy it!!! Its learned through many many mistakes, years of them infact.
As a person how will you handle failure? will you give up after 6 months of crap returns? because thats whats going to happen. People here say dont risk too much to begin with, I dont aggree with that, you need to learn how dangerous these markets are and to do thatyou need to lose money. So when you think you have figured enough out to trade, go trade it with reasonable money and watch in horror when you discover the emotions of trading. Without that proper risk of loss, you wont discover these emotions.I'm not saying bet the farm but give it a go with a decent level of risk.
Trading for me has these equall parts which you will have to learn and discover.
Money management (your risk capital/risk per trade/draw down limit)
Trading psychology (dealing with lossing trades/emotions/understanding)
Trade setup (what kind of setup you'll be taking/stop loss/profit targets)
Trade managment (is it taking too long to move/adjusting stops)
Trading is really enjoyable but only after you gain consistancy. Its a bitch to learn but well worth
the effort. Good luck!!!