Ares,
Lacking even an "O" level in maths (unlike some of the swots here), I learned about the Black-Scholes model by building my own model in a spreadsheet and looking how the various elements interacted and reacted to changes in the inputs.
It took a long time (self-tuition, very inefficient) before I fully undestood probability density functions,etc. And then, I had to refer to 4 or 5 books to cross-reference, clarify and elaborate on various aspects.
The attached Word doc will show you how to build a model in Excel (it ewas writtten a long time ago. Iteration for the implied is brief (incomplete) but just "iterate".
Regarding the binomial model in Excel - forget it, life's too short.
Grant.