Mr Gecko,
The ones in black are trades (seems ME doesn't differentiate buys and sales); the bid/asks are sizes at current bid/ask.
As you can see on my example, the figures at left are the sizes (red = sale, blue = buy); I don't use the time or price I'm just interested in size. The figure in green represent an order, ie 1 lot short, indicated by the minus sign.
Re DDE's, I've done this extensively and there is absolutely nothing I can find which gives an edge. Of course, this is not to say others may not find something. I'll see if I can find an example and post here.
Grant.