The market you intend to trade makes a big diff on peoples responses..
q. Which demo did you use? if no demo, why?
I find that the mind plays tricks on you when it comes to paper trading.. "I would have..." etc.
The next step is a demo account, which at least records it acurately-ish, with the exception of fear.
after you have demo'd and feel confident, then open up a live and start to deal with the psychological aspects..
Also, I would def recommend demoing with the broker you endup choosing for live, if only to prevent execution errors.
good luck to you