I guess that the person who started this thread as well as anyone else interested in learning a little more about the subject is really confused now.
But hey, that's part of trading - there are many styles of trading and many of them work for different people.
So please correct me if I have picked this up wrong, but I am trying to filter my way through some of the main comments and make some sense of them for anyone who is trying to learn here.
Concerning the experienced and profitable traders...
- Some set stops others don't
- Both are able to determine when a trade has gone wrong (that is the stop).
- It is simply that some people choose to enter a stop on the system, and other choose (and have the psychological discipline) to take the loss manually.
- Those who set stops on the system do so for various different reasons they feel important.
- The KEY is being able to tell the point when a trade has gone belly up.
My own thoughts...
Find the position where you believe a trade has gone wrong (This can change tick by tick). Personally I do it by looking at the chart to see the price movement in that given period. If I am trading a Nasdaq stock, I also use Level 2 to get a feel for the flow of the stock once in the trade.
If you are happy and able to take the stop manually ( I personally feel most new traders aren't though), then do so.
If you cannot do that for what ever reason eg. hesitate to take the stop, or maybe the trade is a swing trade and you won't be sitting in front of your screen for 4 days solid, then place a stop on the system and move it if appropriate to lock in profits.
The easiest to understand source for where to put stops that I have found is some of the Pristine material
www.pristine.com. The seminars on CD or the book "Tools and Tactics for The Master Day Trader" (it doesn't just deal with day traders).
These cover various trading styles and examples of stops. Some people will of course disagree with their methods, but they do give clear indication of where they put stops for different trading styles.
From there a trader can, and should, further develop his or her own style of trading and stop management.
Just don't go bankrupt whilst you are learning.