The markets don't care about your personality. You either learn how it moves and tailor your method to the market's tendencies, changing your personality in the process, or you simply don't make it. The regurgitated talk about finding a strategy to suit you is misleading. You honestly think you can do this without changing, improving your character? Laughable. In addition, thinking that there are countless strategies that work is also misleading. There are a handful and one or two are optimal. This too seems obvious to me but again we can't all be wolves.
Would you try to become a professional athlete with that mindset or would you look for the best techniques out there and completely transform who you are? These among other misconceptions are the main reason the statistics are what they are. People don't want to change and expect the world to bend to their will. The truth is much sharper than that I'm afraid. Change means having to admit we should change something about ourselves and that we're not perfect. Most people cant go there, yet they want to be traders....delusional.